This has been a topic on my mind a lot lately. I am not too insecure, in fact most people who know me would probably think that I never struggle with it. But I do. We all do. I wish I could say that I don't care what people think about me, but I do. I wish I could say that it doesn't bother me at all when there are people that don't like me. I always wonder, why don't they like me? What is it about me? And I go into a mental tailspin trying to figure out what it is.
I still have no answers, so I shift my focus to something else. Do I do things that cause other people to feel insecure? I analyze the behavior that causes me to feel bad, and try to see it in myself. Honestly, I would feel so awful if I was the cause of pain to other people.
I know that the best thing is to just 'Let go and let God". When I figure out how to do that, I'll let you know!